That internal ache is the starting point of country music. If it's a happy song and I can still feel sad in it? That's my favorite.
— Shane McAnally
Sometimes you just want to write a party song.
It only took me six months to get a record deal, but it took me 20 years to have a hit.
I always loved Willie Nelson, but I loved the songs that Willie made famous.
The Nashville Network, that's all I would watch as a kid.
We'll set up a demo session and try to knock out eight or ten songs and make them sound as close as we can to a record with the money and time we have.
One of the greatest tools you have as a songwriter is anonymity. If someone knows too much about the songwriter, they don't get to insert their own characters. I don't want the audience thinking about the gay guy who wrote the song.
If the right idea comes up, and it feels true to talk about somebody being in a truck, and that's the only way to tell the story, then I will reluctantly tell the story that way.
I'm a creative person who had a lot of dark time in my life. I can still get to it: I can still go to a relationship or a time when things weren't great. But it's getting further and further from me.
I'm a commercial-minded songwriter. I'm here to make a living and be on the radio.
When I stopped hiding who I am, I started writing hits.
I wake up every day thinking, 'I just can't do it anymore.' There's nothing left to say, and I'm completely dry. And then I get in the room with somebody and they say the right thing, and I'm on again.
Nashville is a boys' club of redneck conservative ideas. But they're ready to embrace gay people. I never felt for one second that someone was judging me. Some people are like, 'Oh, I love gay people' in that 'I have lots of black friends' kind of way. It's awkward, but you have to appreciate that they're trying.
When something works on a huge level, everybody does it.
I have a hard time being happy, and I think a lot of creative people suffer with that when life gets real happy.
The truth is, I probably would be dead if I had become a star, because at that point I was so closeted and so afraid of people of finding out I was gay. There was no telling what would have happened.
West Hollywood blew my mind: gay men walking down the street, kissing and holding hands. I'd never imagined there was a place like that.
